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Therapist Mumbo Jumbo: You Should Never Give A Lecture To Someone Who Needs A Hug (Metaphorically Speaking)!
If you've ever sat in a therapy session and found yourself wondering, "What on earth does that actually mean?", you're not alone. Therapists have a language all of our own. Somewhere between university assignments, supervision, research papers and conferences, we seem to develop a dialect that sounds incredibly intelligent... but often leaves the people we're trying to help feeling like they've accidentally wandered into an academic lecture. Let's be honest. We've all done it
anammarapsychother
Aug 33 min read


"Don’t Tell Me to Breathe!": Why Deep Breathing Advice Flops (And What Actually Works)
Picture this: Your kid is midway through a epic meltdown. The decibel levels are pushing rock-concert territory, their face is a shade of crimson usually reserved for fire engines, and their tiny fists are clenched so tightly they could turn coal into diamonds. Naturally, you pull out the golden nugget of modern parenting wisdom. You drop into your best, most serene, yoga-instructor voice: "Just take a deep breath, sweetie." And what happens? Do they melt into a puddle of zen
anammarapsychother
Jul 213 min read


“Just Talking Doesn’t Help” (and Why That’s Not a Bad Thing)
This might sound strange coming from a therapist, but here it is: Just talking doesn’t help. At least… not on its own. Now before you close this tab or roll your eyes — hear me out. Talking can be a starting point , not the finish line. The problem with only talking You can talk about your problems for hours. You can explain why you feel anxious, angry, numb, stuck, or overwhelmed. You can understand where it all comes from. And still feel exactly the same. That’s because u
anammarapsychother
Jan 182 min read


Your DNA - But not as you know it!
The DNA-V model is a simple way to understand how our minds work and how we can make good choices, even when things feel hard. It comes from a type of psychology called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), but DNA-V makes these ideas easier to learn and use—especially for young people. DNA-V stands for Discoverer, Noticer, Advisor, and Values. These are four parts of your mind that help you learn, grow, and decide how to act. First, the Discoverer is the part of you that
anammarapsychother
Jan 182 min read


Mindfulness Techniques for Children's Mental Health
In today's fast-paced world, children face a myriad of challenges that can impact their mental health. From academic pressures to social dynamics, the stressors they encounter can be overwhelming. Mindfulness techniques offer a powerful way to help children manage their emotions, reduce anxiety, and improve their overall well-being. This blog post explores various mindfulness strategies that can be easily integrated into children's daily routines, fostering resilience and emo
anammarapsychother
Jan 184 min read
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